A Golden Birthday–13 on the 13th

13 on December 13

Do you remember what young teenaged boys spent their free times doing during the 1980s? Video games.

We finally allowed Dan to buy a used Nintendo from a friend. I can still hear the goofy “music” from some of the games, even though Dan played it in the basement. He’s become so intent on scoring so many points, it became difficult for him to stop long enough to eat supper.

The Iowa State Fair wasn’t as much fun for him anymore, until he discovered an arcade tent.

We’d hosted birthday parties for him, from having a few friends over to watch a movie to renting a party at the local skating rink.

David Nellis, Sam Thomason, Robert Hofer, Darin Carter, Bryan Flood, Dan, Nate Diercks, Donnie Morgan.

Since his Golden Birthday, age 13 on the 13th, was coming up, we decided this would be the last one with a group of kids. We rented the Aladdin’s Castle arcade at the mall, after hours, and eight boys went to town on those machines.

Video games and pizza. A memorable Golden Birthday–38 years ago.

32 comments

  1. Oh my goodness, Joy! Yes! We remember! Paul just mentioned yesterday that he remembers (not so fondly) getting up in the middle of the night to get the latest video game for Miss Delaney for Christmas…oof! Thanks for the grin this morning! Xo! 🥰❤️🥰

  2. The 13th is a good day to be born, because occasionally the date will fall on a Friday. It teaches one to dismiss the superstitions about Friday the 13th and to instead celebrate on that day. My 13th birthday fell on a Friday in 1956. I survived somehow (I know how) and have had a good life. However, had you mentioned video games to me back then, you’d have seen nothing but a blank stare. Portable radios (with tubes!) were the thing in those days. I could carry my tunes with wherever I went until the batteries died.

  3. Sharing one’s passion with your buddies (after hours, no less) must have made for a memorable birthday. I never got into video games much, but our son sure did. I remember he had a controller with a fan on it to keep his hands cool. What will they think of next?

    • He sure does! I hope you’re enjoying your “shared birthday.” Dan is caring for their elderly rescue dog that was attacked by two pit bulls Thursday evening. His wife was walking Luna and ended up at urgent care for her hand. Dan got home from the vet with Luna at 2 a.m. with stitches and a deep puncture drain. Another memorable BD?

    • Thank you, Linda. They’re in a new neighborhood, just two weeks, which is why they didn’t come down for Thanksgiving. I think many of them may get more acquainted quickly since it happened just a block away and another neighbor got involved–and she was also bit!

  4. What a great idea for a 13-year-old boy’s birthday party! I have an 11-year-old grandson who likes to game. His birthday in June may include a trip to Dave and Buster’s arcade at our local mall. Thanks for the idea, Joy. 🙂

  5. Six days after Dan was born, I turned 12. And the best-looking cars were in the 60’s! Although I do love a ’57 Nomad.

    • Craig, you were born the same month Great Grandmother Laura Goff died (the great grandmother who was born three years after President Lincoln was assassinated). I was a freshman in college. Cars were better in the 1950s! (So was the music.)

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