I’ve been a Mom for 50 years!

Son Dan will be 50 on Friday the 13th of December. He was also born on a Friday the 13th, in 1974.

“What did we have?” I kept asking after being sedated for a C-section.

“I told you, a boy.”

“What do boys play with?” I’d grown up with one sister and several girl cousins.

A baby son, in Colorado. He was the only grandchild on either side, so there were soon heart tugs to return to Iowa, when we did when he was two years old.

Meeting the national longest-serving governor, Terry Branstad, at a Scout activity.

The next couple of decades were filled with “adventures,” answering his notes to the Tooth Fairy, homemade Halloween costumes (Bilbo, Gandalf, Darth) volunteering for whatever he was involved in: school, AWANA at church, Cub Scouts (yes, a Den Mom), driving him to piano lessons and Boy Scouts, the first Star Wars movies and taekwondo, and to work at Target (until he got his license).

We hadn’t figured on parenting an only child, but I lost the next two pregnancies, so we are especially thankful for Dan! He and his wife Renee have a seven-year-old daughter, Kate. He works as a CPA (with a law degree) in the Twin Cities.

Dan’s parenting style. And they’re reading the Narnia books these days.

What did boys play with, at least before Pac-Man? Dan’s favorite was Crossbows and Catapults.

36 comments

  1. What sweet memories! Congratulations to you and Dan. I have a lot of family who live in the Twin Cities. My favorite part of being a grandparent is watching my son as a parent. It sure is a wonderful feeling to see him being such a great dad.

  2. Happy birthday to your son, Joy! And a huge thanks for your review. Glad you enjoyed it! Happy Holidays 🙂

  3. Dan is the nicest person I have ever known! A fine Irishman and a great friend! Happy 50th!

  4. There’s something about boys and battles. My sons and husband, and any visiting boys young and adult, would play Risk where each player had an army. Happy Birthday to Dan! He appears to be a gentle soul and was wise to follow his heart. I love that he has the word “BLESSINGS” over his window. 🙂

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