Living with an Octogenarian

As of today, I live with an octogenarian. Yes, my Favorite Guy!

He grew up on a farm near Glidden, Iowa, and attended school in Glidden. We met at the State College of Iowa, where he was a business major. That meant that he’d be drafted upon graduation, so he enlisted in the Air Force. We were married the same year (1966).

The Air Force sent him to tech school for Air Traffic Control, to Mountain Home AFB, Idaho, then to Vietnam. Air Traffic Control became his career–in Colorado, then Des Moines, where he retired.

Guy has enjoyed robust health until the last few years, when he developed Parkinson’s, most likely for serving in Vietnam. He’s given up his motorcycle and sports car, and we’re unable to travel anymore. Enjoying the Iowa State Fair is in the past, but he still volunteers at church one day a week and has played trumpet with the local New Horizons Band for a dozen years.

Neighbor Murphy waddles over to see if Guy might have a morsel for him.

He’s a popular neighbor, with his chainsaw, snowblower, and willingness to collect leaves every autumn. Now he enjoys watching the neighbors from his swing on the porch.

Happy Birthday from your Favorite Wife!

42 comments

    • Thank you, Darlene. I’m not well today, but he will enjoy lunch with Milenko, his first ESL student 20 years ago when refugees of the Bosnian war flooded into Iowa.

  1. Please wish Guy a Happy Birthday and thank him for his service. Glad two super people found each other.

  2. Happy birthday to Guy! He has such a kind look about him. I’m sorry he has to deal with Parkinson’s as a likely result of serving our country. Enjoy this very special day with your soulmate, Joy. 🙂

    • Thank you, Nancy. I’m not feeling well today, but he’s having lunch with Milenko, his first ESL student, when refugees of the Bosnian war flooded into Iowa!

  3. Such a sweet post. Happy 80th birthday to Guy! He looks terrific and fit. My favorite part was how you signed it. I’m glad you’re his favorite wife. 🤣

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