The American flag was precious to my grandmother, Leora Wilson. One of my favorite picture of her is under a flag at my parents’ farm.
Back in 1890 when Leora was born, Idaho and Wyoming had been added to the Union, making 44 stars in the flag. Utah became a State when she was 5, the year her father went bankrupt in Nebraska’s drought, adding another 45 star to the flag.
Leora was nearly 17, living in Audubon County, Iowa, riding a horse to town to take piano lessons, and helping her dad in his fields of popcorn, when Oklahoma was admitted to the Union. 46 stars.
The 48-star flag came about when New Mexico and Arizona became states right before the Titanic sank. Leora was 21, living at Wichita, Iowa, not yet married.
It was that flag, with 48 stars, for the next 33 years. . . through Leora’s marriage, the Great War, the births of her 10 children, the loss of three as infants, WW II. . . and the loss of three sons during that war.
Making her a Gold Star Mother.
Flag Day was also important to her. She’d display the American flag at her little house in Guthrie Center.
Her family had sacrificed so much for that flag.
In September 1945, son Danny was still Missing in Action in Austria, although the war in Europe had ended months before. Two sons were still Missing in Action. Dale and Danny. And Junior was killed in training at the end of the war.
An American flag had been presented to Clabe and Leora by Junior’s friend, Ralph Woods, at Junior’s funeral just a month earlier.
The war was over. Wilsons two older sons had served in the Navy. Delbert and his family had moved home to be with his folks. Donald was still in the Navy. Daughters Darlene and Doris, both married, also lived in Iowa. Wilsons four small grandchildren kept them entertained, at least part of the time.
They had just received a letter from Harry Wold, a pilot friend of Danny’s who’d been his “stone hut mate” in Italy while in combat. Harry hoped that Danny would still be found, but he was skeptical.
On September 26, a carton of Dan Wilson’s things arrived at the Wilson acreage south of Perry, Iowa. It had been sent from the Army Effects Bureau of Kansas City Quartermaster Depot.
Clabe signed for the carton. I suppose they opened it, but would they have sorted through their son’s eighteen pairs of socks, five cotton undershirts, three khaki trousers, and other clothing to find Danny’s wrist watch, souvenirs of his R and R to Rome the December before, a fountain pen, other items including a small Testament?
Yes, the war was over, but life just kept on and on. . . .
According to Leora’s notes, she churned butter every week. Two cows had calves. Clabe helped a neighbor with field work.
At some point, they would have gone through Danny Wilson’s things. They would have found a small New Testament and thumbed through it.
They would have found the page with the American flag pictured in color.
Under that flag is an arrow, drawn in ink, and the words, “I give everything for the country it stands for. D. S. Wilson.”
Daniel Sheridan Wilson. . . . Danny.
If this brings tears to my eyes, these many decades later, how did my grandparents deal with it then?
No wonder the American flag was precious to my grandmother.
In the picture of Grandma under the flag at my parents’ place, she’s wearing a dress, a necklace, and a watch with a small silver bell fastened to it.
The Capri bell arrived in the same box as Danny’s small Bible. . . . with his personal pledge to the flag in it.